How to Handle Compliments

Question: I would like to ask you if you have some witty or clever way to handle compliments. When someone gives me a compliment, I usually try to deflect the compliment. I say things like "Oh no. Not really." And I get embarrassed. And then I usually try to give a return compliment. It all becomes an awkward situation. I appreciate the compliment but I wish people wouldn't give me any. April Borovy, Decatur, Alabama.

Answer: April, you answered your own question. You said you appreciate the compliment. I remember doing just as you are doing. I finally learned the best response to a compliment is simply to say "Thank You." That's all. You do not need to give a return compliment. You do not need to be witty or clever. Just sincerely say "Thank You."